I love dysfunctional families. Don't ask why, i just do, there is just something oddly comforting about them and that is why i found The Descendants struck such a strong chord with me. At its core its a family drama about a man who finds out his wife was cheating on him, but its the superficial charm, wittiness, and overall sweetness of the whole story of a man struggling to figure out the WHY while at the same time stretching to hold his family together, that wins you over in the end.
George Clooney does a wonderful turn as Matt King, the protagonist of the story, and the man on a mission to find his wife's lover. Think about it. Bring to your mind the one person you truly care about, the one that you know you will be with forever - your names etched in stone, and then imagine finding out that they never really cared. That the person was cheating on you the whole time while you gave them your whole heart, never suspecting a thing, and that when you finally find out, the person is no longer even there to answer the burning WHY. Imagine this and you will know the agony of Matt King, as he struggles to cope with a dying wife in a coma on the one hand, and the revelation of her deceit on the other. Should he remain the dutiful husband and stay by her side, forgiving all her misdemeanors as every breath may be her last? Or should he give into the pain of the betrayal? Throw into the mix two unwieldy daughters, one who wants nothing to do with him and the other too young to actually grasp the magnitude of the situation, and a family deal underway worth half a billion, and you have the potential for a very heavy handed, sweeping melodrama.
And this is where The Descendants stands head and shoulders above its competition. While the Alexander Payne (Director) could have easily taken the sappy, melodramatic route, he chose instead to give it heart. Instead of sobbing, you find yourself smiling at each frame (with chords of sadness plucking away in the background) as Matt King first grapples with his own emotions and then with that of his children, who pulls in tow, as he travels around the beautiful settings of Hawaii searching for the man who was sleeping with his wife (because he has to confront someone and it obviously cannot be his comatose wife). Scenes such as when Matt first learns of his wife's infidelity and then runs all the way to his sister-in-law's house in sandals and shorts to ask her if she already knew, or when he and his daughter's visit their estate for the last time, reminiscing over memories that will be soured forever, stick with you in a sweet a way like candy to the roof of your mouth - you know its not good, but you cant help but enjoy the taste. Even his final showdown with his wife's lover is bittersweet, a single scene resonating the beauty and the pain of the entire movie, and of a man who has a family to look after and a final goodbye to be said to a wife he loved with all his heart.
The Descendants in the end stands out, not just because of tremendously great acting or smart screenplay, but the simple fact that it puts before you a most saddening of tales and still manages to leave the hall smiling and happy. It is also sprinkled throughout with lines that will linger with you long after, and a feeling of fulfillment can ever accomplish. This is a movie you MUST watch, and if you already have, recommend to others.
VERDICT: BANG! brains blown out!
p.s. i leave you in the end with some of the aforementioned quotes. I hope you enjoy them as much i did.
"Somehow it feels natural to find a daughter of mine on a different island. A family seems exactly like an archipelago - all part of the same geographic expression but still islands - separate and alone, always drifting slowly apart."
"You give your children enough money to do something, but not enough to do nothing."
" What is it that makes the women in my life destroy themselves? "
